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Friday, May 7, 2010

Life is very unpredictable, we will never know what is going to happen next, but what we can do is to be strong and have a positive mindset towards our future.

Many things had happened in my life some said that it’s like a drama
show that has a good ending but to me it’s like a nightmare that I’m
trapped in. Even though things are so much better now but the hurt
and the pain will always be with me. It’s like a healed wound though
the wound had been healed over time but the scar that had been
left behind will always remind you of what had happened.

Because of what happened from the past i can’t really trust people
that easily and often push people away because I don’t want to go
through the pain of being left behind. Isn’t it what everyone does?

Recently I happened to watch ugly Betty and there was this episode
that changes my mindset.
In this episode ugly Betty had to say good bye to her boyfriend
because he is leaving for greater good but ugly Betty did not cry and
do the whole self-pity thing that most of us do.

She wrote this short post talking about how people deal with
goodbyes and that really touched me.

It’s something like “I have to say goodbye more times that i would have like but everyone can say that. And no matter how many times we do it even it’s for the greater good its still stink. And though we will never forget what we’ve given up but we owe it to ourselves to keep moving forward. What we can’t do is live our life always afraid of the next goodbye because chances are they are not going to stop. The trick is to recognise when a goodbye can be a good thing, when it’s a chance to start again”.
Think about it.




This are my friends that have started to trust and even though one day
we might say goodbye to each one i know we will never forget this period of time that we spend together. And maybe when the day comes we might all find something or someone special in our life.



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